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The question seems to be not so much whether light travels from a light source to an observer in waves or in particles, but whether those light wave formations or particle accumulations are somehow identical and measurable. I think that there is no way to isolate any particular light beam or light ray. In the experiments you describe in your exceptionally well written essay, you appear to have neglected to state that the light has to be on in the laboratory while the experiment is being conducted. When one shines a light into a mirror, it enhances and utterly distorts its reflection immensely. This practice might have been the reason the Michelson - Morley experimental results were so confounding.