" ... I suggest that no two detectors visual image of reality can be the same, as no more then one can't occupy the same space time at one (Boscovich)."
That isn't true, Peter. The information contained in wave patterns detected by your radio or television receiver certainly does occupy a common spacetime with a wealth of other information, and your image does not differ from the image I receive on the same frequency via my detector. This isn't the case with discrete particle states, in which fermionic particles are forbidden to occupy the same state at the same time. In other words, continuous information is translated only in discrete states (like the pixels on your screen), yet a unitary reality does not require more spacetime to hold more information.
"Yet we can find out about reality in many other ways than via em wave emissions, and often then find our assumptions were wrong."
Which assumptions? Which ways?
"Is that not concrete enough evidence Tom? It is indeed a very deeply held hidden assumption that Georgina has challenged, based on the anthropocentric thinking we all use by habit."
I don't understand what you mean. If reality requires a layer of interpretation to make it comprehensible, that is anthropocentric -- since we humans are the ones doing the interpreting.
"If you'd been as confident the sun orbited the Earth when someone suggested it was the other way around, would you not have reacted, along with most others, precisely as you are now and dismissed the evidence due to the unfamiliar interpretation?"
The geocentric vs. heliocentric issue comes up frequently here, and I don't find it that profound. Fact is, that planetary orbits are so nearly circular that one can be easily forgiven for mistaking the evidence of approximation, for the absolute truth. The Copernican model is, however, more than an interpretation of how orbits work -- Kepler showed us that the sweep of equal areas in equal times demands acceleration of the orbiting body; without this insight, Newton would not have been able to connect the acceleration of a falling apple to the acceleration of the moon in its orbit around the Earth's curvature.
My point, Peter, is that there is a big gap of knowledge between the heliocentric model and Newtonian mechanics and its completion in general relativity. So it matters little whether I personally, as a pre-Copernicus philosopher, accepted the geocentric or heliocentric model. As Vesselin Petkov has made a point of saying -- science never moves backward. I am at peace in accepting that everything I know may be wrong, and content that what knowledge I do have is compatible with the state of the art; i.e., it does not require great leaps of speculation. Details matter.
Tom