Tom,
I responded as below on my blog to your;
"I frankly don't understand." The model agrees a 'unitary reality', but simply also recognises that if the camera has a red filter, or is in motion, we have to subtract those effects to find what it is. Therefore 'observed' realities are only 'apparent' as they may differ. I can't believe you don't agree with that because it is the 'reconcile'you refer to.
The only question that remains then is the underlying mechanism beneath the classical and mathematical theories which we use for reconciliation. That mechanism IS long outstanding, and I have found a very simple one which renders 'SR' compatible with 'QM', or rather 'unites quantum and classical physics'.
It is simply Raman atomic scattering, by the particles of local 'inertial systems' at c in the system frame. Relative 'approach' speed may be whatever we wish (resolving any issue with two masses approaching, both at 0.6c) but the instant any interaction takes place the speed is modulated to local c wrt that system. This gives an effect identical the 'Local Reality' Einstein spent his later years searching for.
You've found nothing wrong with the simple math, and will not. All we have done is considered that a detector must be made of matter, and detection requires an interaction, which itself modulates speed to c (resolving the 'measurement problem' of QM). The modulation is gradual in a diffuse medium, giving a curved path (GRIN lenses and space time diffraction) and birefringence (as found by Raman). The basis law then is, the f and lambda ARE always reciprocal, so we can't consider delta f without considering delta lambda, which then always gives c (read c/n, but n is the red herring), because c=f*lambda is a constant.
This does take some metal dexterity. 'understand' is maybe not precise. I'm sure you do 'comprehend' the relation, but what you will not be able to do is 'assimilate' it, or find a 'hook' for it to fit in your brain, because it is unfamiliar.
This is where Orwell's 'crime stop' comes in, which is when belief systems overcome science. If the data doesn't fit anywhere with current beliefs and understanding our minds will reject it. We have to 'go back to school age' in our minds to learn and revise it afresh. Most of us aren't willing to try. I believe you're one of the few who can.
You wouldn't be 'buying in' to anything, just 'giving it a trial' to see if it works. I'm saying you'll find it works perfectly and doesn't hurt a bit. Au contraire in fact. If you can find any falsification at all I'd be delighted, but I need to understand how to overcome the 'crimestop' effect in explaining it in less than 200 years (thus my reference to the Copernican 'revolution'). Your help is greatly appreciated.
Thanks
Peter