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Jonathan,
" Time as duration must exist for forms of any kind to persist, and time as process allows procedural evolution to proceed, potentially making space emergent."
This is why I think the observation about it not being the present moving from past to future, but the changing configuration turning future into past, is so important. Duration then doesn't transcend the point of the present, but emerges as an effect of activity. Remember that for light, there is no time, because for light, there is no internal clock, ie. activity. Much like there is no activity at absolute zero. If you have no activity, there are not even measurements, since measurement requires connectivity.
Consider this relationship between units of time and the process of measuring these units; Like hands of a clock, the process is constantly going onto new units, as the units are first in the future, then recede into the past. Energy is the hands, constantly creating new forms, as it drained from old forms. So since it is this energy that physically exists, it is the forms and the events, be they days or the existence of an object, that are transitory. While the energy is conserved. So while it is said time is what keeps everything from happening at once, but what really keeps everything from happening at once is the conservation of energy; It can only be one configuration at a time.
Thanks for the concern. It definitely marks the end of a major part of our lives in many ways. As I tell my daughter, when someone close dies, it's like having an arm ripped off, but you still have to keep going.