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Joel,
You present a clear and logical argument. The question is why has physics become so convoluted? I think you just miss it. It isn't that time is two faced, though there is are subjective and presumably objective aspects, but that there are two directions. The present goes from past events to future ones, while these events go from being in the future, to being in the past. So which is foundational and which is effect? Does the earth travel a narrative fourth dimension from yesterday to tomorrow, or does tomorrow become yesterday because the earth rotates?
If the latter seems more likely, than time is not foundational to action, but an effect of it, similar to temperature. Time is rate of change, while temperature is level of activity. Gravity and velocity affect the levels of atomic activity, which affects the rate of change. That's why clock rates vary. The faster clock isn't going into the future faster, but as it ages more quickly, into the past faster.
The cat is not both dead and alive, because it is the collapse of probability which yields actuality. The actual occurrence of events determines the fate of the cat. It is only in retrospect that we perceive time as a sequence of events, but then we still see the sun moving across the sky, while it is expansion of knowledge that tells us it is the earth rotating .
Cause and effect is not sequence, but energy exchange. Yesterday doesn't cause today, any more than one rung on a ladder causes the next. It is the radiant energy of the sun, shining on the inertial energy of a rotating planet which causes the sequence of events called "days." Now me tapping these keys is cause of letters appearing in the screen, because there is a transfer of energy.
Physics frequently does recognize time is a function of action, yet their professional instinct is to reduce it to a form of measure from one event to another and that only re-enforces the idea of time as a series of events.
Duration doesn't exist externally to the present, but is the state of the present between the occurrence of the observed events. It is the events which are phantom, not the present.
Rather than go into my entire entry, I'll leave it at that, but just wanted to give a thumbnail sketch, since the entries are many and these ideas tie in with yours.