1. I am surprised that none of your colleagues discuss your theory here or elsewhere. Can you point to places where such discussions have taken place in case I am wrong.
My ideas have not been discussed much at all. I have been cited a few times but not as much as I would like. This raises an interesting point.
When I was young and naive I thought it was the proper thing to survey the literature and cite any prior work of a similar nature, especially for new radical ideas. I thought everyone did this both as a courtesy to people who had earlier ideas and as a courtesy to their readers who would find it useful to see similar work if they wanted to build on it. When I first started working on space-time structure I got carried away with this idea and ended up writing a bibliographic review with hundreds of references. It actually got cited quite a few times even by some influential people.
Now I know that most people do not work that way. Citations are too important a commodity to throw about like that and citing prior work can undermine their own claims to have done things independently. Most people follow the principle that they only cite other work that is needed to understand the present paper. They often wont cite prior similar work even if it was an important influence. Sometimes people are even open about this and think it is the most correct and honest thing to do. Perhaps they are right. See this article on backreaction for example http://backreaction.blogspot.co.uk/2008/02/peer-review-iv.html
What this means to you and I is that it is critically important that we make sure all our ideas are recorded in papers that are stored in permanent repositories from the earliest date possible. That is why I started viXra. If some outsider has an interesting idea I don't think they should lose their claim to priority just because they are excluded from repositories.
It is important to identify your key ideas to yourself first and make a point of writing about it as explicitly and clearly as you can. If is an important idea that nobody has written about before then write a whole paper about it and introduce suitable terminology. Don't bury it in long papers as an aside and certainly dont forget to mention it because it is so "obvious" Apparently the Higgs boson was so obvious to Englert and Brout that they forgot to mention it and Higgs nearly did too.
Coming back to the original point, no, nobody discussed my main ideas much, but I know that the onus is on me to develop the ideas further. A rough and vague idea wont count for much if someone else comes along later and publishes a more polished version with a better mathematical finish.