Hi Jennifer,
I'm really glad that you enjoyed the essay, and that you understood the point about koans and the problem of 'un-learning' how to discriminate and correlate, which we begin learning at least as soon as we emerge from the womb. And you are correct that "bit logic isn't able to convey koans."
The idea of gravity as "anti-entropic" does bear thinking about. Smolin states it as the case, and I have intuited this in other places, but I don't think the idea is rigorously defined. I haven't read Prigogine recently, but have done so extensively in the past. I also am aware of many of Barbour's ideas, but not as sold on them.
On your blog you comment that it's exciting to be part of FQXi. It truly is exciting to find 175 ten-page essays dealing with such an important and current topic. I always derive a number of new and significant ideas from these contests. As I indicated on your page, and will repeat here for other readers, I think some key ideas are to be found in, for example: Wang Xiong's treatment of information as symmetry breaking, Mark Feeley's treatment of probability in QM, McHarris' essay on non-linearity, Janzen's treatment of time and relativity, Gordon Watson's analysis of Bell's inequality and Vishwakarma's essay on the stress-energy tensor. These are examples of why FQXi is a great place! There are many, many more.
Best,
Edwin Eugene Klingman