Here is the reply to the second part of your post. It refers to the cause and effect combined to application of force. I think the crucial question you pose here is how is information used across space, so that force can exist? Correct me if I misunderstood your post.
The answer, in short, is that information originates in a single point in space, but it exists everywhere, instantly. The density of information declines with the square of distance. There are very good reasons for this. They are explained in the book. If every book, or even a paper, could be compressed into an essay, and then as random comments about it, everyone would be writing essays. I hope you understand this. I am sorry if you find my mention of the book as an attempt to monetize on it. If you are an Amazon Prime member, you can borrow it for free.
Everything I say here must sound incomplete and kind of off-handed. I understand that. Again, read the book and things may clear up for you. If you don't want to, that's your business.