Eckard
Not so. This is only because they tended to speak of the force which caused an acceleration in motion. They then referred to the body returning to its rest dimensions, ie expanding having contracted. And of course this physical affect only occurred in the line of travel, being an explanation for what they saw as the result of M&M. Lorentz 1895 section 6: "and thus it would cause a contraction in the direction of motion in the ratio of 1 to √(1-p2/V2)...In reality the molecules of a body are not at rest, but there exists a stationary motion in every "equilibrium state"." Lorentz, 1904, para 1: "The first example of this kind is Michelson's well known interference experiment, the negative result of which has led Fitzgerald and myself to the conclusion that the dimensions of solid bodies are slightly altered by their motion through the aether." Etc, etc.
Einstein discounts all this, and explains the apparent alteration in dimension as a function of relativity. Einstein 1905 section 2 refers.
"Let me merely add that there one cannot find a state of existence between past and future if time elapses continuously."
It isn't time that is elapsing, it is existence which is altering, at a rate. And anyway, the response to your assertion is, why not? Something must be existent so that it can become the 'past' and determine the 'future'. You are trying to define existence in terms of time, rather than in terms of how it must occur.
"Virtually any relevant event extends over a huge number of femtoseconds"
What is a "relevant event"? Is it a unique physically existent state? Because that is what reality is. It may look to you as if this relevant event exists over n duration, but for that to physically be true, there must be no alteration of any form whatsoever. Since if there is then there is more than one reality involved.
"We can only attribute existence to something with a life time. You did certainly exist before this very moment..."
Incorrect. You are defining reality from a higher level of conceptualisation than that which physically exists, ie in terms of 'things'. From one point in time to the next, I am not the same, physically. I just retain certain superficial characteristics which are utilised to determine me. So I am, like other 'things, thought of as existing over time, which is incorrect. The other way to explain this is to ask, what is "noticeable change"? Any change is noticeable, if you can notice it. But any change is a change, whether it is noticed or not. So precisely when do we say I am not physically altering, even though there is evidence that I am? This leads you back to the point that reality is a discrete definitive physically existent state of whatever comprises it.
Paul