The only thing that you enjoy more than exploring the deep rabbit holes that are the nature of physical reality is dragging others down into those same deep rabbit holes. I have to admit, though, that your questions do make me think...
Akinbo Ojo replied on May. 23, 2015 @ 11:41 GMT, "Concerning travelling at light speed, you may want to consider the 'photon existence paradox' discovered by Armin Nikkah Shirazi with whom I had some discussions on his forum also in this years essay contest. If time does not flow for a photon or if 'time' stops at light velocity as John puts it, then the time of emission of a photon is the time also of its absorption, how then can photon exist?"
Yes, photons do have a null time and according to a photon's clock, emission and absorption are simultaneous events without a time delay. While I do not think that this is completely true, it is in fact largely true.
Akinbo Ojo wrote on May. 24, 2015 @ 11:29 GMT, "In Special relativity/ Lorentz transformation, the arrival time of a photon that is ALREADY in flight cannot be altered by the motion of the observer during the transit time."
I get a kick out of your paradoxes. As far as I know, photons are always ALREADY in flight. You are simply tying yourself into the well known knots of space time and fighting the windmills of la Mancha.
The barn pole "paradox" is pretty well laid out in hundreds of different ways and so it is clear that you simply like to mix it up by mixing it up. Unless you deal with the complexity of simultaneity and what inside means, you will go on with those pesky photons already in flight.
The barn pole "paradox" is experienced by muon packets in accelerators all of the time. A 50 m long packet will fit in a 1 m long barn as soon as its velocity reaches 99.98% c. This is not a thought experiment...it is what happens.
The muon clock ticks at 2.2 micros, the muon rest decay, but at 99.98% c, it ticks at 110 micros in the rest frame. This is not a thought experiment, this is what happens. Does the muon pole gain mass? Yes. Does a muon packet meet up with photons already in flight? Yes. Can the muon pole meet the photon inside of the barn? Yes. This is not a thought experiment...this is what happens.
A moving muon pole collides with a photon sooner than a muon pole at rest according to a rest clock. However, the moving muon pole has a different clock than the muon pole at rest and so sooner has a different meaning. When you go on and on about sooner and later without stating which clocks you are using, you simply jump from rest to moving to rest frames and get really confused.
Once again, there are problems with relativity, but it is futile to doubt mass-energy equivalence and gravity slowing of clocks. Chasing the wrong issues for correcting relativity means spending a lot of time in deep rabbit holes with little to show...except perhaps a lot of photons already in motion...