Hello again Jonethan from Margriet Anne O'Regan ~
I'm very glad that my thesis had some resonance for you !
'Goddess' you say !!? He he. Although to be honest, I have long fantized about having the following message printed on my T shirt - "Place pedestal beneath & worship" !!!!!!!!
My point is that mothering is the fountainhead & source of all that is good & right & true - & that (correct) mother-love is the vehicle through which all of these blessings - indeed all of our humanity - er, except the evil parts !!!!!!! - derive. Not just all of our biological drives such as (good & correct) subsistence appropriations practices, not just (good & proper) parenting, not just (good & proper) sociality & yes, not just good & proper sex with appropriate partners, BUT also that 'mothering' down through the eons eventually enabled our sapiens mothers to 'invent' both language, science & our intellect - our ability to see into the under-the-surface heart of things.
A baby in a mother's arms is in a very real & ultimate way, 'just' another bit of 'stuff' that she has to learn how (or acquire the reflexes & instincts) to 'manipulate' to her (evolutionary) advantage. She not only has to acquire the ability to 'merely' physically/manually manipulate this 'thing' sitting on her lap (to both her short- & long term evolutionary advantage) but to whatever extent she can see 'below the surface' of this thing, so too can she learn (evolve the capacity) to understand this unseen realm. This is the beginning not only of the highest grade of parental care exhibited by all of the 'higher' organisms, but this 'mother-manipulation-of-the-baby-stuff-in-her-arms, is also the beginning of science, maths & undoubtedly even magic & religion (except that the latter has always operated to the evolutionary disadvantage of those that took these routes to understanding ...) It was also the beginning of all tool use & manufacture - the beginning of all technology.
Nature gave us - all higher mothers - their mirror brain cells precisely as part of their ability to understand - to read, interpret & understand (resonate with) - their young. Mothers have to understand the unseen needs of their young in order to provide for them....
Men did not invent tools - nor language, nor maths, nor science, nor technology. Within certain men each of these inventions were/are 'just' 'run with' a bit further down the track, & unless they get reined in by women's nurturing skills, - our (initially) superior ability to see into the depths of things - will only help accelerate our now near certain doom.
Throughout the natural world the differences between the sexes is often as is the distinction between night & day - & that metaphore could be pushed even further thereby inspiring the observation that this difference is often like that between pure good & pure evil.
Consider the life of an alpha male lion. He first gains access to a pride only by violently ousting the current 'lords', that is by either killing or mortally maiming them. Next he mercilessly kills all of the very youngest cubs, & then next drives out all of the young growing males - otherwise the lionesses (precious) sons. And if this wasn't bad enough he or at least they (there are usually one or two of the alpha's brothers associated with him) - spend their remaining (short) tenure with the pride lying around waiting for the lionesses to make all the kills. Well almost all. Males will join in to help down the very largest game, such as buffalo. But for the most part waiting for the females to make all kills & then rush in & threaten the lunch-providers with mortal injury if they don't hang back & wait until they have had their fill, which sometimes bloats their bellies so much they can hardly walk.
I must catalogue the kind & extent of atrocities male animals practice towards the females of their species throughout the natural world. They are legion & they are all also exhibited by our own males towards women.
'Protection racketeering' is among the most eggregious & is precisely the modus operandi of male lions as already outlined above. Not a few biologists have pointed out that once esconced within a pride, the alphas then 'PROTECT' THE PRIDE NOT FROM EXTRA-SPECIFIC PREDATORS BUT FROM OTHER MALE LIONS - & so in this 'protective' role protect their own issue from other infanticidal male take overs ............ AS I said this is protection racketeering of the highest order. First inflict mortal injury to some members of the group, & then demand that they pay you - provide all your food - to hang around & protect the group from an identical infanticidal take-over.
Nature is verily indeed red in tooth & claw - which is why being a fully evolved, perfectly adapted life form (that organism which exists - indeed thrives - without causing any waste, loss or damage to anything or anyone) is such an exulted plane of being. Nature documentaries do a far too good a job of portraying all of the between-species agony, gore & death going on out there, but almost none as to the heinous predations occurring within species including that between the sexes - aka the (very literal) battle of the sexes - which particular class of atrocities (praying mantises & black widow spiders aside) are almost always perpetrated by males towards females .... And their young....
OK - sermon not quite over yet. What males do to becomne males is take something that 'life' (in the persons of nature's mothers), has already invented (as above) & then males take it to some kind of excessive extreme all by way of either courting the opposite sex &/or coercing them into compliance with sexual union. Or by 'merely' fighting/competing amongst themselves male-on-male for top spot. The 'spot' where they will attract the most female attention.
Take the peacocks tail. All birds, all peahens have tails. Male peacocks 'merely' evolved the capacity to turn their tails into the incredibily marvellous courtship accoutrements that they are. The human male's measurably greater intelligence in some areas are in te final analysis 'just' peacocks tails - accountrments meant to seduce & entice women ...
Our ancestral mothers indubitably invented (evolved the capacity) to use tools eons before men began to excel in it - only to have this particular boon turn back on them when males started holding knives to our throats & guns to our heads in order to force copulations on us. And force us into marriage. And murder any 'illegitimate' children. Have just heard about the 800 baby skeletons in some Irish home for unwed mothers ................
Our ancestral mothers invented spoken language by first doing so with their babies. Most if not quite all animal mothers talk to their young - if you haven't heard a mother cat purring to her babes & them grunting back, puppies whimpering as they rout for a teat - or a mother hen clucking to her chicks & them chirping back, then you haven't a clue as to the beginnings of vocal communication. Not only did we as a species run with this particular language boon all the way to the computerized world we live in today, but it's just one of the many existential tools men 'ran with' just a little further than was survivally necessary, but principally by way of aquiring yet one more arrow in their 'courtship' quiver.
Being a bit of a polymath myself, I have greatly enjoyed following physics, chemisty, maths & technology right throughout my life & I still have to agree whole heartedly with John Nash in his Nobel acceptance speech which if you don't already know it by heart, I could do no better than highly recommend you not only look it up but see the whole movie 'A Beautiful Mind" starring Russel Crowe !!!!
Love & happiness, peace & joy to you, Jonethan, being a male of any species is a very hard row to hoe & you men have unquestionably the hardest one of all !!!
Margriet Anne O'Regan
PS An only slightly deeper understanding of our world makes it very clear that men are not responsible for being what you are - whether good or bad !!!!
If you are really interested in this 'excuse' for all of mens' - males right throughout the biosphere - masculine behaviour, please feel free to email me at margrietanne@hotmail.com & I'll show you how the universe let's you guys entirely off the hook !!!!!!!
M.A.O.