Dear Georgina, Tom,
we turn around in circles if we not include the main ingredient of the scientific method, namely testing models and hypothesis' by their predictions.
"No phenomenon is a physical phenomenon until it is an observed phenomenon."
One can understand this statement in exactly the sense i envisioned. For every two competing theories, there has to be at least one differing prediction to discriminate the competing theories from one another. If the new theory is right, its prediction will surely be an observed phenomenon in Wheeler's sense. If the theory is not right, the other theories' prediction will surely be an observed phenomenon in Wheeler's sense (but only if the latter theory's prediction has already been confirmed in other experiments).
Two *yet unconfirmed* theories with different predictions relating to a certain measurement (experiment) may lead to the result that none of these theories' predictions are an observed phenomenon in Wheelers sense, means either of the two predictions couldn't be observed. Does this mean that these theories can't represent what is going on in physics if nobody looks at it? Yes, because we have taken a look, and whatever the real physical processes are that lead to the outcome we observed, the two theories cannot represent them. For the two theories to have another chance to represent the outcome, - they must be changed in some way - so that at the end of the day we have another two new theories to be tested (with new predictions!).
A theory that claims to make exactly the same predictions as an already tested theory (the latter being confirmed by experiment), is not a theory, but an interpretation. Examples for this could be the many-worlds-interpretation, the Bohmian pilot-wave interpretation (if representing all known and tested physics until now).
"Of course things/events not observed are not a part of the would be observers Image reality and so do not seem to exist."
This has nothing to do with magic - if we don't forget that the basis of science is testing models and hypothesis' by their predictions. Means: to decide if an unobserved event is a constitutive element of reality, we have to observe at least some consequences of that element, some consequences that differ from the claim that this element does not exist.
If we don't proceed in this way, we cannot in principle decide wether "things/events not observed" are real things in physics or merely imaginations in the scientists mind that have no counterpart in physical reality. By merely attaching imaginations to already observed physical events, one only establishes a mental correlation between imagined elements and real elements. This is not the basis of magic, *but* the basis of *magical thinking*. To escape this magical thinking, mankind has invented the scientific method of testing predictions!
We know that the most common statistical fallacy is based upon this magical thinking. For example, it was reported that owners of canary birds are more likely to obtain lung cancer. You could take this as a causal link with yet to be discovered causal chains from the canary bird to the owner as long as you don't look at the statistics of how many owners of canary birds do smoke. So we have to look wether canary bird owners are more likely to be smokers than people that don't own canary birds.
Best wishes,
Stefan