"All the literature of which I'm aware assumes light is just being carried along by this expansion,"
What literature claims that light and spacetime are the same thing? For if we speak of an expanding universe without boundary, this statement is surely implied by that one. Do you want to stand on your own authority, or cite the source, so it can be challenged?
" ... even though the expansion is based on the redshift of that very light and the fact we appear as the center would be perfectly explained by an optical effect,"
An optical effect is only the passive recording of a phenomenon. Redshifts and blueshifts simply describe the limits of the spectral range from infrared to ultraviolet. It explains nothing; it only obeys the laws of classical mechanics that we already know from empirical data alone.
" ... since we are at the center of our view of the universe, but of which there is no apparent reference or debate."
Subjectively, any particle is at the center of its own universe (Or as Hilbert is reputed to have said, "Some have a mental horizon of measure zero, that they call their point of view."). Objectively -- scientifically -- the universe has no center; every arbitrarily chosen point is the origin of creation. Study that principle of least action, John. You will realize that it's much more than what you think of as a mere mathematical model.
And meditate on Fermat, who discovered the principle of least action via his study of optics. You'll realize that there cannot possibly be a center to an expanding universe -- it's expanding from every point. If light were only carried along by the expansion, as your unnamed source claims, there would exist nothing to expand, because light travels at a measured speed and to be physically real, it has to be " ... independent in its physical properties; having a physical effect but not itself influenced by physical conditions."
(~ Einstein)
Because space is not independent in its physical properties and thus not physically real ...
And because time is not independent in its physical properties and thus not physically real ...
And because spacetime is independent in its properties and physically real, the motion of light (electromagnetic radiation) is measured only relative to spacetime -- which not only guarantees that spacetime and light are independent of each other; it guarantees that each has a physically real effect on the other. Furthermore:
Because our knowledge of physical effects depends on physical measurement, the expansion of space is constrained by the constant speed of light, a spacetime symmetry elegantly explained by Einstein, Lorentz and Poincare as the effects of length contraction and time dilation.