Jonathan,
My argument goes back to my observation that measures of time/duration are measures of action, while measures of space/distance are still measures of space.
We think of time as a measure from one event to the next, yet those events do not physically co-exist, but are the result of a process of creation and dissolution. Such as measuring waves rising and falling. Duration then is the state of the present, between the actual occurrence of these events, so what is being measured is the frequency between oscillations. Much as measures of temperature would be of the amplitude of these oscillations.
So while the measure is of past to future events, the actual dynamic is of these events going from being in the future to being in the past. It is just that our mental process is a function of sequence and so we interpret it as this point of the present somehow moving from past to future.
As Newton described it; The absolute flow of time. Yet as relativity so correctly points out, all measures of time are relative. Basically each action is its own clock and there is no one universal clock. Which is quite logically explained by time simply being a measure of action. Consider that a faster clock only burns/ages quicker and so recedes into the past faster, not traveling into the future faster.
This then leaves the question of space; Now, yes measures of space and time are quite related. Think whether we measure the distance between two waves/distance, or the rate they pass a mark/duration. Yet it would be equally impossible to separate measures of temperature or pressure from concepts of volume, but it is not politically incorrect to consider them as distinct concepts.
As such, I think it will only be when we have managed to shed this particular ideology of spacetime, that we can further understand both space and time in their true nature.
Regards,
John M