Tom,
I wrote; "Apparent 'curvature' of light paths is just refraction, which is a 'rotation' of the optical axis."
I didn't infer anywhere there that light even had a real 'path' let alone a real 'curved one'. The rotation of optical axis is quantised at each harmonic interaction and responds to magnetic field direction (so electron spin) axis. I agree the axis of the helical 'path' of any point on an expanding Schrodinger/Huygens spherelet is instantaneously linear.
A GRIN lens has a 'graded' construction where the dielectric constant is modulated by gradient of effective density and thus refractive index 'n', so at macro scale giving the 'Apparent' curvature I referred.
At larger scales the reducing electron density with increased radius around massive systems reproduces the gradient in a GRIN lens, so the curvature is greater closer to the object, as is the delay (particularly if the system is also rotating away from the observer). Call it 'curved space time' if you wish, but it's a natural consequence of Snell's Law and extinction distance of the local medium, (or 'substance' as Minkowski put it).
Steve,
Just read your text and agree, but it exposes the 'scale' question.
Jonathan,
Thanks, looks very interesting, but at over £100 I might tackle my current pile first! "The Enigmatic Electron" is excellent.
John,
I agree, "the premise of spacetime as an underlaying fabric of reality starts to fall apart." My point was that your comment that there did not seem to be 'any apparent solution' to the underlying problem was quite wrong. No 'twisted knickers' but a little frustration. I agree many current 'descriptions' are nonsense, but that's not what you wrote, or, I suggest, what's important! Who was it said 'the best place to hide things is under our noses'?
Best wishes
Peter