Dear Madam,
Your first paragraph shows interconnectedness and as a result, interdependence, of everything with every other thing within a fixed framework. But the Grandfather paradox is fiction, because 'now' or 'here-now' is linked to 'future' in a different way than it is linked to the 'past'. Space, Time and coordinates arise from our concept of sequence and interval. When it is related to objects, we call the interval space. When it is related to events, we call the interval time. When we describe inter-relationship of objects, we describe the interval by coordinates. Past, Present and future are segments of these sequences of intervals that are strictly ordered - all of future always follows present. The same sequence is not true for past, because any past event can be linked to the present bypassing the specific sequence of its occurrence but you cannot move from past to future violating the sequence. Further, you can think of or use the information relating to past with certainty, but cannot do the same for future. This proves unidirectional time. We have analyzed Einstein's formulations in detail in our essay.
Can you give any example of an actualized event (must have been measured/observed by someone somewhere to be meaningful objective reality) without any reference frame? You have admitted that "QM measurements do not represent objective descriptions of a systems state independent of Measurement, i.e. pre-measurement OR amalgamation of the pre-measurement state of the element of reality and the ready state of the apparatus". Measurement is a process of comparison between similars. Without the reference unit, how can we measure? We perceive by comparing the fresh impulse with similar impulse from memory as the reference. If a reference unit is necessary, that becomes the reference frame. Further, the term 'similar' implies difference from 'others' implying there is a reference frame.
Your statement "The manifestation has a singular fixed state, produced from the sub set of sensory data received rather than many possibilities of the absolute object and pre-selection sensory data" is correct, but has to be interpreted properly. The manifestation is the 'perception of totality' of the results of measurement of various aspects or components (sub set), which is frozen for future reference. Thus, it is not a possibility, but a certainty. The barn-pole paradox arises because of the hypothecated length contraction, which we have shown in our essay is not real, but apparent. Even time dilation observed through GPS systems are due to refraction by the denser atmosphere of Earth, when light signals from outer space reenter it.
The Andromeda paradox is more a matter of philosophy than physics. It is related to the definition of simultaneity. Nothing that happens on Andromeda today can affect anything that happens on Earth today. If observers moving at different relative velocities have different planes of simultaneity - hence different sets of events that are present - then nothing can be related to the other and the concept of relativity fails. Regarding freewill and determinism, we had written separately and you can get a copy by writing to mbasudeba@gmail.com.
When it is possible to describe facts easily using simple statements, why do you make it incomprehensible?
Regards,
basudeba