Dear Mr. Fisher,
Thank you for reminding us about the uniqueness of various things, from stars to snowflakes, and of course humans. Science, in particular physics, tries to find the things that various entities have in common, since we, as limited beings, don't have the time and resources to understand each unique thing in full depth. It is more efficient for us to focus rather on those things that can be reused in our explorations of various shapes populating the world. Those things we have in common with the others and the universe. The universal. From your phrase, "each real object has a real material surface that seems to be attached to a material sub-surface", I understand that for you this universal is captured in these surfaces. That's an interesting point of view. Good luck in your explorations.
Best wishes,
Cristi