Joseph,
Thank you for a deeply thoughtful and nicely written essay. There are aspects of your philosophical view that are very insightful and well presented - for example, in thinking about what it would be like to have no memory, and in your critique of "self" as a basic intuition. And your overview of the progression from thermal physics to bacteria etc. is excellent, very clear-minded.
I'm sorry to say that I don't agree with your thesis about "anthropic reasoning"... though I don't think you're far off track. I fully agree that from bacteria to our primate ancestors, there's a profound continuity in the nature of meaning and how it evolves. But I would put the discontinuity - the beginning of a new kind of evolutionary process that made us human - much further back, as described in my essay, which is also on the emergence of meaningful information.
Of course people born into the most primitive cultures still existing on Earth are fully capable of educating themselves in modern science, given the chance. Their native languages all evidence remarkably sophisticated mentalities, beyond any comparison with other animals. Nonetheless, you're right that there are further intellectual discontinuities, as in ancient Greece (and in other cultures where writing began to be a primary medium for cultural evolution), and with the emergence of modern science. And I agree that new dimensions of self-awareness are key elements in these events.
But I do find baffling the notion that we could tell machine A that it exists - and even more, the thought that this would make all records available in the world meaningful to it. This is surely not in the spirit of the young Heidegger you mentioned in your note above (if by 'young' you mean Being and Time). Self-awareness at any level is not a simple ability or "a cheap trick." It has many "pillars", as you say - not just memory but anticipation, the ability to interpret our perception and create a shared reality, etc.
Language vastly expanded our mental scope in all these respects, and that happened all over again when written records begin to pervade society... and again with the explicit self-reflexion of modern thought. You ask us to imagine what consciousness would be like without memory... so imagine what it would be like in a culture where no information had ever been conveyed except in momentary, face-to-face contact between people, and no one had ever imagined the possibility of recording anything. Yet amazingly complex societies evolved in these conditions.
Of course we can't give due weight to everything in such brief essays! - as it is, I'm amazed at how much you've been able to touch on here. And your ending points to the heart of the matter, I think, where you open up the idea of "mutual information". A central point for me is that "I" always evolves in relation to "you". It's true that modern Western thought has evolved as a dialectic between 1st-person and 3rd-person views of the world, and hardly reflects at all on the "You and I" kind of relationship, that Buber emphasized. But I think this is a key failure of the Cartesian/Kantian worldview, that even Heidegger did not fully overcome.
In any case, I very much appreciate the level at which you're thinking through these issues, and I'm rating your essay at the top of the scale.
Conrad