Hello Sabine,
Thanks for the opportunity to read your mind.
Let us start with a few words about what we don't know.
Insofar as 'free will' is simply the ability to make decisions in the context of multiple choices, we have to admit that free will exists, but it comes at the high price of uncertainty.
Concerning 'strict laws' we are moving towards a collective understanding that what we have called strict laws in science in the past are better represented as 'principles'. Strict laws demand compliance whereas principles are more liberal in the sense that they accommodate deviations within limits. Nature accommodates deviations either side of its statistical norms which deviations conjure up extraordinary variety, which variety enables a few of many variables to persist in an environment undergoing constant change.
Your claim that 'Large things are made of smaller things, and if you know what the small things do, you can tell what the large things do' - requires re-thinking. There is an adage that the whole is greater than the sum of its parts. If you put the parts of an aircraft together in their intended relations, you still have no idea what an aircraft can do! Reductionism only works well when it works well - i.e. to one's advantage.
Picking up on your statement that 'no one understands how gravity works' rings a bell.
In 1916 Einstein declared gravity a misconception, an effect rather than a cause. While he elaborated to state that the cause was brought about by the uneven distribution of mass in the universe, his 'cause' is open to question as to whether the dominant constituent of the cosmos, vacuum, is the direct cause of what we call 'gravity'.
In matter we find an exhibition of defiance against vacuum, the exception that proves the rule. What is the rule? The rule is that vacuum (unfilled void or space) abhors nature, and flows to fill its absence.
Regarding the question of 'curved space', if space is unlimited in its extent, how can it be 'curved'? Where space describes a discrete volume, then yes, the space within a banana skin is curved.
On to your subject of the moment: 'Emergence'. I hope that I am alone in your readership in saying that I don't understand your concept of emergence. Perhaps my limited skills in mathematics accounts for my difficulties, but if this is so, reliance upon mathematical linguistics may be stretching the evaluation criterion stipulating that essays should be 'non-specialist'. Suffice to say, I don't know what I don't know! пЃЉ
I think that we all, upon occasion, make mistaken assumptions that each question only has a single correct answer. This error often arises due to the temptation to reduce all issues to mathematics for resolution.
Circumstances are constantly changing, which changes enable other acceptable answers to surface. Truth is thus revealed as being conditional rather than absolute.
It is important for all specialists to communicate with the public in non-specialist languages because we need the support of the public to further advance each specialty.
Thanks again Sabine for the present of your presence of mind.
Gary.