@Don
I'm glad we have a common interest in making QM understandable. QM deals about elementary physical systems. So there are no simpler systems than quantum systems. Unhappily, this simplicity is often veiled by our classical physics spectacles. By the way, I quoted from your essay on my twitter page. I anticipated you were OK about that.
@Ian
1. Thanks for recommending Moore's Quantum volume "Six ideas that shaped physics". If I manage to get a copy under my eyes, I will jump right away to Schrödinger's equation.
2. I'm aware that I don't wipe away all the difficulties in teaching QM, but I believe that with my approach quantum physics may be taught at the same level as classical physics. Classical physics with billiard balls or bullets, quantum physics with rotating arrows. Feynman initiated this approach with his "All we do is draw little arrows on a piece of paper". It is of interest to extend this approach to "All we do is imagining little arrows in 3D space", because QM is fundamentally about objects that are described by vectors, i.e. arrows.
3. Indeed, there have always been attempts to describe reality in terms of waves (periodical behaviour) and particles. Huygens, but also Newton with his corpuscles that are pulsed by his vibrating aether. 17th century physicists already had the feeling for pilot-waves. Funny that, for more than three centuries, we didn't try to put this idea to the test with ordinary systems.
@Frank
In quantum field theories, forces are mediated by particles. The same for ordinary analogues of quantum field theories. I've not worked out any of these analogues to full extent, so I have only some guiding principles, like: the influence of an object decreases as the inverse of the square distance, two needles are weakly coupled if they glide on each other but are strongly coupled when three of them are aggregated, etc.
@Andreas
I totally agree with you that alternative theories have to be measured against the success of QFT. As you may have noticed in my essay, I don't propose an alternative theory. I try to explain QM (and consequently QFT) "as it stands". I don't think we need another theory. There is need for making sense of the theory "as it stands" (Smolin's Problem n°2 in "The Trouble with Physics").