Luigi,
Though it wasn't a topic covered in my essay, I think there is a particular basic master key which is overlooked in physics and might resolve some of the issues you raise.
Pretty much all of rationality, logic, languages, history and general social and cultural constructs are based on the notion of time as this moment of the present moving from past to future and so it is instinctive to include it in an physical understanding of reality. The fact is that it is the opposite. It is the changing configuration of the present which turns the future into the past.
The earth doesn't travel the fourth dimension from yesterday to tomorrow. Tomorrow becomes yesterday because the earth rotates.
In this context, time is an effect of motion, rather than the basis for it. As such, it has more in common with temperature than space. In fact differing clock rates are due to changes in the degree of activity. The twins paradox isn't due to one traveling a different time dimension than the other, but the gravitational effects on atomic structure mean one has a faster metabolic rate than the other.
Problems such as Schrodinger's Cat and multiworlds are resolved because it is the actual collapse of future probabilities which creates the effect of time passing, not that one must resolve how to go from a determined past into t probabilistic future. In fact, given that all input into any event cannot be known prior to its occurrence and the result of its occurrence quickly recedes into the past, due to constant change, the future could be thought of as cause and the past as effect. Probability precedes actuality.
As for the issue of Planck scales, a dimensionless point in time is not possible, as it would freeze the very motion creating the effect of time. It would be like trying to take a picture with the shutter speed set at zero. Therefore it is impossible to isolate a particle from its action. So there can be no absolute measure.
Part of what my essay did touch on is the dichotomy of scalar and vector concepts as reflected in our mental processes. In that the right, parallel processor side of the brain, which we ascribe the emotional and intuitive functions, is essentially a thermostat. It registers and reacts to the mass of input, as opposed to the left side, serial processor, which is essentially a clock, in that it navigates the cause and effect sequencing emerging from the mass. The problem being that our rationality is sequential, so we try to impose, or extract narrative from the scalar mass and this is reductionist and limits broader perspective. Thus we do need both functions to most effectively comprehend the reality in which we exist.
For much of human existence, we saw the sun moving across the sky and tried to develop theories as to why, before understanding it is the earth on which we stand that moves the other direction. I think the same conflict exists in our understanding of time.
Actually I did cover this topic in the first FQXi contest, on the nature of time, but it didn't get much notice. I assumed anything I said in this contest would get equally lost, so took the opportunity to raise questions about cosmology. I think the Big Bang model subconsciously originates with the geometric assumption of form beginning with the point. I think the real zero in geometry is empty space and that a cosmology which begins with space and not all energy emerging from a point, to create space and time, is more logical.
One of the many issue I've raised in that effort is that while space is assumed to expand from the singularity, there is still a stable sped of light. Which is our most basic measure of large scale space. If space is actually expanding, why does the speed of light not increase proportionally? If two sources are x lightyears apart and the space between them increased to 2x lightyears apart, that wouldn't be expanding space, but simply an increasing amount of stable space.
Starting to get carried away here, but though some of these ideas might be interesting.
Regards, John