Hi Georgina, thank you for the kind words. I realize that the ideas in this essay are a bit out there, and I understand why people may not be getting their heads around it on first look.
The orphan information exists in the same way we think of objects as existing -- the primary difference is its history. A fundamental object is generally assumed to have existed in that absolute state since shortly after the Big Bang. In the informational scenario, data is constantly being generated in relation to existing data, and it accumulates in this way as an ongoing evolutionary process. There is one and only one fundamental entity, the bit; the particles of the Standard Model emerge to us complex systems and our technology. Wheeler described this emergence process: we hear our detector make a click, and we say, "Aha! A particle did that." But perhaps it was just the appearance of a new bit in the world, and in the very rich context of the situation and everything we've learned about the laws of physics, we interpret the bit as a fundamental object speeding through space and hitting the detector.
Think of the blind cave shrimp as a bundle of bits, like us, only simpler. However, we don't see bits when we interact with this bundle. A cave shrimp, an object, is what appears to us. It is like a projection that we are biologically equipped to create in our mind (which itself consists of numerous interacting bit-bundles), and these projections are what make up much of the human experience. This is a phenomenon that has evolved over billions of years. As for the cave shrimp itself, it's hard to imagine what experience is like for such an animal, but in some sense, objects emerge in its mind as well. Though more crude, the shrimp is similarly equipped to create these internal projections so as to enhance its fitness.
The hardest part of this scenario, as you've noticed, is trying to envision the environment as information rather than objects. Space-with-objects seems "normal" to us, and standalone information seems very abstract. But, I claim we should be skeptical of a reality consisting of objects, because it might be unnecessarily extravagant. While it's true the universe may contain ~10^90 objects carrying their accompanying bits of information, perhaps we could have the same identical experience in a universe containing only ~10^60 bits and zero fundamental objects. If that's the case, I claim that Occam's razor points toward the latter. The universe might be much simpler and more elegant than we intuitively assume, and having just one type of fundamental entity, in a compact, self-driven system of mutually relational subsystems, may be all that's needed to account for what we see. To me, an unknowably vast landscape of spacetime with various bosons and fermions obeying seemingly disjointed physical laws of mysterious provenance -- let alone multiple universes out there! -- seems ugly in comparison, like the hilarious building in Vladimir Tamari's essay.
I've been struggling with various approaches to explaining these ideas. Thank you for the opportunity, and for your time.