Pentcho, Tom,
The essence of SR is encrypted within what Einstein himself called the seeming contradiction between his two postulates. I prefer seeing SR more obviously and originally anchored within Einstein's silly Poincaré synchronization.
Tom wrote: "an observer in a moving frame of reference is entitled to say that the at-rest observer's clock runs more slowly." If an observer is entitled to say something then he is a person, and as such he may define his own immediate surrounding (A) as moving relative to something (B) at rest. In principle, he may either attribute A to his car and B to the street or the other way round. The question how fast two identical stop clocks at these locations do run can be objectively decided with a joint measurement performed by persons who are not bound to the subjective attribution of rest either to car or street - provided these persons agreed on a reasonable symmetrical one-way synchronization.
I agree with Georgina on that Tom/Einstein made a "category error"-
Two-way synchronization has problems:
- It is asymmetrical while light propagates isotropically.
- I was ad hoc fabricated as to formally justify Lorentz' attempt to rescue the aether hypothesis after Michelson in 1881/1887 didn't confirm a assumed aether; it is therefore not trustworthy.
- It cannot be reasonably applied to any model of how light propagates, no matter whether as a corpuscle or as a wave.
- It led to many so far unresolved paradoxes.
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