Dear Prof. Tejinder Singh et al,
Your essay is beautiful, deep, and well written. You made justice to alternatives to QM like GRW, Bohmian mechanics, and trace dynamics, in which you have important contributions. In particular, despite Weinberg's arguments that it is impossible to make quantum evolution even slightly non-unitary, in the context of gravity, it might be difficult (although maybe not completely impossible) to maintain unitary evolution (because of the nonlinearity of general relativity). By your essay, you shown that one should not rush to give up the hope of a realistic description of the world, although to keep realism, I advocate a small change. Due to results like Bell's and Kochen-Specker's, and Wheeler's delayed choice experiment, I find difficult to preserve the picture of a pre-existing reality, if "reality" has the same meaning as in classical physics. I would rather say that reality, or the initial conditions, depends on the context, on what property will be measured, so reality has to be constrained by a global consistency principle. A deeper understanding of reality is needed, but giving it up altogether, as Wheeler's "it from bit" suggests, seems too radical to me, or at least too early. I consider that it is great that you explore and advocate ways to maintain it.
Best regards,