Wow. Thanks Rick!
It's good to have you commenting here. Sorry I haven't seen an essay from you, but not every topic is a winner for everybody. I really like what you had to say, as it manages to condense the content of my whole paper down to the single statement "The invariant portion of 'It from Bit' and 'Bit from It' is 'from'!" And of course, as you point out; any choice of from is a conscious act.
Indeed; the very act of invoking a 'from' mentality implies there is a sense of origin and product, that is in some ways artificial. It is certainly accurate to say that our society is too hung up on pinning down causes, where causation can be like tugs to the fabric that have a cumulative effect, rather than blows to the object itself that shatter it immediately.
When the vase ends up on the floor; it is equally shattered, even though no one tug moved the tablecloth much, nor did any one bump jiggle the table to a great degree. But to assume that the last nudge or vibration of the floor is the cause is erroneous, because every little tug on the fabric contributed to the vase's fall. One might just as well blame the fact the table was not level to begin with, but choosing any single cause is misleading.
All the Best,
Jonathan