Thanks, James. :-)
I don't consider it an insult to be called a good theorist.
Experimental results or other empirical observations don't exist in any other framework than theory, if they are part of science.
Where we differ fundamentally, James, is that it's not just theory you reject. By denying that theory is essential to a scientific judgment, you also reject the correspondence theory of truth, and therefore reject objective knowledge itself. What I mean is, though you may be correct in all you write about physics, you will never have a way to show that you are INcorrect. Without that element, there is no way to distinguish science from religion or philosophy. Is that what you really want?
If you think it's careless and irresponsible of me to criticize your work by this standard, then what standard would you like me to use?
If you say I'm not getting the "real points," understand that points of data are not real to me unless accompanied by a theoretical explanation. That's what realism means -- correspondence between elements of language (theory) and elements of nature (phenomena).
Your real point -- "mass is an indefinable property" -- ignores the fact that definitions are always taken in terms of other definitions; i.e., E = mc^2 does define mass in terms of energy.
When you say that there is no language that can define mass, you imply that E = mc^2 is untrue and therefore special relativity is untrue. Your claim that relativity survives without theory is not supported -- the phenomena has to correspond to the language, and the language is primary. If you really believe that relativity is falsified, you should work on a competing theory that incorporates all the phenomena that special relativity explains, rather than declaring that any theory is worthless to describe physical phenomena. That is, if you don't want to wear the label, "anti-science."
I've gotten a reputation around here for being overly stubborn in defense of rationalism and realism, though I don't deny -- as you say -- having "insufficient knowledge" to evaluate anti-rationalist and anti-realist philosophies. I even separate the two -- I can tolerate arguing with anti-realism; there's prodigious literature in quantum theory espousing that view. Anti-rationalist, though, is against the very idea of science as a rationalist enterprise.
James, if you accept that scientific method contributes any value to objective knowledge, accept that theory is essential. If you want to reject objective knowledge altogether, it's unlikely to attract my personal interest, though there are plenty of schools of philosophy and religion that embrace that idea.
None of this should prevent us from being friends and enjoying the benefits of life experiences we mutually enjoy. Not everything is science.
All best,
Tom