I don't disagree too strongly with your characterization of my position, but I would modify it somewhat:
(1) It doesn't have to be physics per se unless one takes the position that all of natural science and all of human knowledge can ultimately be derived from physics. I don't take that position. It has to be derived from generalizations of observations of the natural world. Many of these, perhaps the majoirty, will be in the realm of physics just because we have defined physics to encompass the most fundamental and easily mathematizable aspects of the world, but not necessarily all. For example, if there are regularities in the way that societies behave that are not ultimately derivable from physics then these can form the basis of mathematics as well.
(2) Modulo the above, yes, but it is important to bear in mind that I intend a broad interpretation of the word "useful". If one theory is much more elegant and easy to think about than another, but their differences have no physical implications, then I would still call the first theory more useful than the second. For example, by this, I think I can justify that there may be a "correct" way of handling infinities in a mathematical theory, or at least ways that are more correct than others, even though this has no immediate physical consequences.
I admit that my view is logically compatible with yours. At least, I cannot rule out a very large mathematical multiverse containing all possibilities. However, my arguments are intended to at least undercut the reasons for thinking that this might be true. It seems to me that the main arguments for the maxiverse are simplicity (Occam's razor) and the ability to account for the role of mathematics in physics in a naturalistic way. I am not too impressed with Occam's razor arguments. It seems to me that, where it applies, its applicability can be derived from other more fundamental principles, and that there are areas where it doesn't apply, i.e. there are phenomena that are just complicated and messy. So, I'm not prepared to accept a hypothesis just because it is simple. There has to be more to it than that. For the naturalistic argument, I still think it is problematic to understand why our universe has the specific mathematical structure that it does, i.e. I don't think you are particularly successful in deflating the measure problem because it seems to me that there are still plenty of bizarre universes that are not incompatible with the continued existence of my consciousness. I also have trouble understanding why what *we* call mathematics should be what reality is fundamentally made of. I did emphasize mathematics as a social activity of finite beings after all.
My position is actually much closer to Sylvia Wenmackers' than to yours, although I don't agree with all her arguments for it. But basically we agree that reality is just what it is, we are in it, and our task is to figure out why the mathematics that we develop is at all relevant to it.