Dear Professor Wharton:
Perhaps it would be useful to distinguish between (a) a phenomenon which is not representable by a consistent mathematical structure and (b) a supposed phenomenon which is inconsistent or incoherent and therefore impossible. In particular, this distinction might be helpful for discussing what seems to be the difference between time and space. Granted, what seems to be special or unspacelike about time cannot be represented mathematically. Granted, furthermore, the standard metaphors for the distinctive feature or features of time are in some ways more misleading than illuminating. I can agree with your critique of the images of flow and passage. Nonetheless, I would contend that the lack of a mathematical representation should not be taken as leading to the conclusion that the supposed distinctive characteristics of time are non-existent. The warranted conclusion is, I think, somewhat more complicated: either those characteristics do not exist, or they exist in the physical world without being mathematically representable, or they exist only subjectively, that is, only in experience. On the last alternative, it remains true that the distinctive features of time are real, even though they are not part of physical reality. In that case, any attempt at a complete account of the nature of things would still be under the obligation of trying to explain those features.
At this point I think another distinction might be helpful. This is the distinction between intuition and experience. An intuition, or intuitive belief, is something that we are inclined to believe. A familiar example is the belief that, if we drop a heavy cannon ball and a much lighter pebble from the top of the leaning tower of Pisa, the cannon ball will reach the ground first. But an experience is something different. Here is an example: "The Moving Finger writes; and, having writ, / Moves on: nor all thy Piety nor Wit / Shall lure it back to cancel half a Line, / Nor all thy Tears wash out a Word of it." This verse does not state an intuitive belief. It tries to describe exceptionless features of experience. It is hard to know what people might believe, intuitively or otherwise, about time travel, the irrevocability of the past, and similar topics. But time is an experienced part of reality, and it is experienced as something very different from a dimension of space. I do not know how the experience arises. Maybe it derives from other entities and forces which in themselves lack distinctive temporality. Obviously, intuitive beliefs can be overruled. They often have been and often should be overruled. But experience is something other than beliefs, and therefore experience has to be treated differently.
Best wishes,
Laurence Hitterdale