I encourage you to avoid the sour grapes and yet I also encourage you to keep jousting against the windmill's of pedagogy. You have model, I have a different model, and there are a large number of other people with different models.
Mainstream science realizes that uniting gravity and charge forces will require a very different approach and that mainstream science remains trapped in a blind alley of its own pedagogy. However, if it were so easy to find a path out of the local minimum in which science currently finds itself, it would have happened long ago.
I like your DQV (dynamic quantum vacuum) approach since it comes down to an aether and that is my approach as well in aethertime. However, since you still believe in both time and space, your DQV aether will necessarily have all of the same pathologies as does the current quantum foam of spacetime. Also, it is not clear what role phase and coherence has with DQV aether, which of course is how any aether will be a quantum gravity as well as quantum charge. In other words, where is the Schrödinger equation?
Let's face it. You have not really made a very strong case for the usefulness of DQV aether for addressing the issues of cosmology that don't already have explanations. In other words, simply saying that DQV explains dark matter is not as useful as actually doing a calculation that shows that DQV aether shows how a galaxy rotates. Replacing dark matter with another equally mysterious substance called DQV aether hardly seems that useful.