This small problem of gravity is not so small after all, but a collapsing universe ties gravity and charge forces together rather nicely.
The notion of a collapsing universe, which then takes care of collapsing wavefunctions, provides the basic force and energy that drives both charge and gravity forces.
For charge force, the collapsing aether acts on each of two charges with opposite phase and there is a aether flux of mdot = 1.1e-10 kg/s. This is simply a reinterpretation of the constants of charge action mdot = me re / (rB tp), electron mass times charge radius divided by Bohr radius times charge spin period. This interprets charge force as a result of a universal collapse.
Gravity is the effect of aether collapse scaled to the time size of the universe. In effect, the universe wrapped back onto itself in time. Every photon emitted at the CMB entangles every matter particle in the present but with a time separation of tB / 2Tu, the ratio the Bohr period to the universe pulse period, Tu, of 13.4 Byrs.
So gravity force scales from charge force simply as e tB / (2Tu), where e is the electron charge. This means that the aether particle mass simply scales from the Planck constant, h, as mae = h / (4 pi c Tu) and the size of a collapsing universe is what determines gravity force. Of course while dipole photons mediate charge force and so charges have sign, quadrupole biphotons mediate gravity force and so all matter attracts even while both charge and gravity are due to the collapse of aether.