Thank you for everything! and especially for the great advices! So let me, please, put it into different words so that I start my lateral thinking as you suggested:
1. First you react like a shy teacher who wants to tell (with nice words) a student, that he's effort is appreciated but the essence of the effort is not so appreciated. Or like a Zen master with a dummy student. Personally I prefer the second one, it has a little bit of learning in it (for me).
2. next you say that it is obvious that I start from a "biocentric" point of view, but the question will be "why do you need to point it out if it's obvious?" the irrelevance rises once we ask "who is trying to ask for what is fundamental?" At this point may I remind the we are in a real contest with real biologic beings trying to ask and respond to a question. Then you add that before any form of life the axiom would be inapplicable, which again points at some obvious fact that seem to be irrelevant, because at that time we wouldn't be participating in this contest. So this real contest exists only from a biologic perspective. Not to say that you almost build a certainty upon a probability "inapplicable when there is no life, such as billions of years ago (probably)"). then you say "Why not just say that everything that physically exists needs a location to exist in?" which is beautifully said and I fully embrace it (more to say is that you gave me some good insights with this more general and apriori approach).But your point at something analogus with moveing in to a new flat and after a year you decide to write down the history of the apartment from the first brick until the present moment (well, not exactly "the present moment"). Would you or would you not include you in the history?
3."You then seem to bring in physics as a conception in the human mind. Again, that seems like a very anthropocentric approach which can't seem to work at times before humans existed". That, because "Physics" as a concept is an anthropocentric approach, obvious, right? What lies inside this concept should not be dependent of humans, or at least that's what we all want, I suppose. But let me ask what the purpose of a non- anthropocentric approach is? Because the purpose of this contest is to answer a human question, and I tried that from a human perspective (not very well done as far as I can see). When you say "Again, that seems like a very anthropocentric approach..." are you aware of the fact that the terms that you propose like being at least similar are opposing each other in some other frame of reference?
Then in the end you already have impressions of me, as a person, presuming a starting journey in physics, and you already give me advices (again like a Zen teacher :) ), which as you can see I do my best to follow them (maybe some other certainty based upon a probability/uncertainty?) . Very nice of you but you're on the wrong track (as far as know about myself). Although if you presumed that I am a novice in physics you are absolute right, but as far as I know I am at a contest called "what is fundamental", and not "what is fundamental in physics".
"...if so, please continue your studies while you work on your ideas, you will find that as you learn more, you also learn to think differently, and possibly more flexibly, about your ideas" so do you think that thinking differently and more flexibly is a emergent phenomenon from 1. learning more diving in deeply into the fundamentality of the field; or 2. learn more than one field of interest?
. I hope to have spoken on your meaning this time, if not I declare myself incapable of a genuine expression of what is obvious (and I do tend to behave in this sense sometimes)
Anyhow I do respect your work in terms of the same reasoning that wrote this message and I evaluated with an 8. If you consider it an offense I sincerely apologies (I could be wrong) but I am just learning, as you already guessed.
Respectfully, Silviu