Hi Georgina,
"You seem to be demonstrating loose association. Putting ideas together which have little if anything to do with each other. Saying a gravitation becomes space-time or a wave-function does not "cut the mustard". "
The physics community has been trying to figure out how quantum mechanics and gravity are unified. But when I offer an answer, you say I'm making loose associations. In truth, my idea about the graviton is based upon established physics. Do you remember the derivation of special relativity? The speed of light is invariant for all inertial reference frames. it's the same for the frame of the train (in Einstein's thought experiment) and is invariant for the train station as well. The geometry of both reference frames is tied to the speed of light in such a way that there are length contraction and time dilation effects. If my expanding graviton idea is right, then both the train and the train station are emitting expanding gravitons. Gravitons can have a velocity with respect to other gravitons, but since the gravitons are acting as both the measuring stick and the clock, then the speed of light expansion of the gravitons becomes the dominating effect. Gravitons expand at the speed of light and eventually fill all space. Superstrings and quantum loops do not fill all space. That is why I think that my expanding graviton idea is a better fit to the laws of physics than superstrings and quantum loops.
Since wave functions are solutions to ALL quantum mechanics systems, and there are momentum and position quantum states for ALL wave functions, then maybe it is just the case that ALL wave functions are just collections of momentum and position quantum states. My idea of unification of QM and GR is to say that gravitons expand at the speed of light UNLESS they are captured by charges and become a wave function. If that were the case, then gravitons are just collections of position and momentum quantum states. They can expand, overlap and become spacetime OR they can be captured by charges to become wave functions.
Another cool thing about my graviton idea is that it doesn't take an Antony Lisi or an Albert Einstein to figure out that if gravitons are behaving like wave functions AND spacetime, then gravitons are probably also behaving like quantum entanglements. You could literally use a laser and a crystal to entangle photons. Entangled photons have quantum states for position and momentum. You could use fiber optics and centrifugres to align those quantum states into a way to store gravitational potential energy.
The advantage of my idea over superstring theory and quantum loop gravity is that superstrings and quantum loops cannot be isolated and experimented on.
Cheers,
Jason Wolfe