Lorraine,
Twice now, you have explained in detail your question. None of my reply (or others') seems to help you in your research. Yet, we keep trying.
Your question I believe is; Since these mathematical symbols are part of highly successful equations describing the behavior of the universe, why would they not also be part of the way the universe operates? The question then becomes; Does the universe effect an operation similar to (an example) the addition?
To this question about the addition, I have offered a reply in the following. A planet will gain mass by acquiring matter, not by computing the available mass in the vicinity. The physical addition for the universe consists in bringing matter together and therefore it has a dimensional aspect to it. The added matter also add in collocation its properties to that of the whole planet; the total mass and gravitational force of the planet are changed. Of course, it does not tell you why the planet acquires material from the vicinity, i.e. the root cause of gravitation.
In conclusion, the universe may effect some of these mathematical operations, but, they remain just on a need to know basis for an intellect. The main question is a "why" calling for a logical operation (spontaneous as the universe is) on elements of a same dynamical nature. This you may do by stepping into the black box by understanding and acknowledging its unavoidable rules and content.
p.s. The appeal of a question often reside in the prospect of a specific answer. Instead of letting us all pull ourselves slowly to this prospected answer .... why don't you let us know what YOU think?
Cheers,
Marcel,