Yes Eckard,
you are correct that most people do understand there is an information delay. However it does seem that there has been a general difficulty reconciling this knowledge with the notion of the present. Most are not conscious that the present experience is not a singular simultaneously occurring collection of events, or objective slice of reality happening right Now - but a composite image formed from received data with incorporated time delay, that is unique for each observer.The amount of delay being variable according to the distance from the origin and the nature of the stimulus.Smells taking longer than sound taking longer than light.
I suspect experiments are designed without the subjective, relative nature of the present being taken fully into account. The two ends of the laboratory are not seen at precisely the same time by the experimenter standing at different ends of the room.It takes time for the light reflected to reach the experimenters eyes and be processed.
Such considerations are important for example when quantum physicists start to talk about time travel. On a minute scale due to the high speed of light and tiny scale of particles under consideration, the far end of the room is seen in the past compared to what is actually happening at the far end of the room. The yet unobserved event might be said to be occurring in the future as it has not yet been observed, but so it is with all distant observations.It becomes the experienced present when the observation is made ie the data is received and processed so that there is an awareness of it.
This gets really messed up for astronomical observations because it takes a vast amount of time for the data to arrive so it is obviously not something happening right now but yet it only now a part of present experience.Until it is observed it is something that has happened but is not yet observed, like the event at the end of the room. Still in the future until it is seen even though the event has happened. After the event is seen it becomes the past consigned to memory or other records.
Those events that have happened but are not yet observed are only a part of the future, the determined part. Beyond what exists at the uni-temporal objective Now (That is right now in objective reality) there is nothing so the future is open and unwritten. Allowing non determinism and free will.I think confusion over this is what lead to the writing of the Andromeda paradox. It can be understood either as I have explained here or by using the Lorentz transformation to calculate what would be observed. The event becomes a part of the present when the data is received by the observer not when the data is formed.
I do not know if you have actually talked to many people about their concept of the present. I seem to have had great difficulty getting others to accept the composite nature of an experienced present moment which is an image of reality formed from received data, rather than an objective reality made from objects and events as they are in space. If you are now saying this is the common everyday perception of the present then I am surprised at that.
I too have only recently become aware of Mc Taggart. I have found his A, B, C series helpful because I have myself been trying to describe how a spatial change can become a sequence in time, which is necessary for passage of time and how this is different from experienced and geometric space-time. As his A, B C series are very clear and unambiguous so I am using his series to explanation what I mean.