Dear Lawrence,
1. You seem to subscribe the idea that decoherence solves the measurement problem, if we interpret correctly what you write. We strongly object against the possibility that decoherence alone provides a solution to the measurement problem. See [Adler's paper against decoherence] for a thorough criticism, which we think is convincing enough.
2. About John Wheeler's idea. They are certainly very appealing, and there could be much truth in them. However, they have not been translated so far into consistent mathematical models. In our essay, we stick on purpose only to ideas which find application in well-defined mathematical models, like collapse models and trace dynamics. Moreover, collapse models make precise predictions, which can be tested experimentally. In this way, one has what we think is a perfect match between speculation, mathematical modeling and experimental analysis.
3. Regarding superfluidity, superconductivity and related collective overcomplete or coherent states. They can be very well described within collapse models, and the answer is that they behave as we see them behaving. In other words, collapse models do not predict a (too) different behavior for such collective phenomena, with respect to standard quantum mechanics. The reason is that these phenomena do not involve the *superposition of a large number of particle in two appreciably different positions in space*, the only type of superpositions which are strongly suppressed by collapse models.
Regards,
Authors