The following will be a rather quick reply as I am pressed for time at the moment:
You wrote:
About your diagram, in order for the "passing clock" to pass the others, it must have a higher speed, thus that clock will show, correctly, a slower time rate. The falseness, if any, may lie in the claim that the others would also see the passing clock as moving slower in time. I am unconvinced either way.
My response:
Actually, in my diagram, the two frames are moving at the same speed through space. I just tried too hard to keep it simple, that's all (so it would not get too jumbled when posted). That is, the passing clock frame is moving at the same speed through space as the frame that has the two clocks. This means that all three clocks are moving at the same speed through space, and this means that they are all running at the same intrinsic rate. ("Intrinsic" here refers to "physical" which in turn relates to "the triplets had physically different ages.")
You wrote:
"My essay also rejects absolute time in my insistence that time is a property of individual objects."
My reply:
This is an absolute time since individual objects are absolute. However, maybe you meant to say that it is not universal absolute time; however, it is easy to have such time by simply using truly synchronous clocks to measure light's one-way speed, thereby getting our absolute speed, and then correcting for our personal clock slowing. In this way, all observers in all frames can share the same time universally.
You wrote:
I admit I don't know why speed is the preferred frame of reference for the application of time rates, but if by absolute motion you mean the speed of a sole object, why would time slow down for it and not increase instead? That statement is incomplete, it seems.
My reply:
Time must slow because of round-trip light speed invariance. Here is how John Wheeler put it:
The following quotes are from John A. Wheeler's book:
[_Spacetime Physics_ ©1963, 1966, p. 80]
"... when Kennedy & Thorndike made their measurements in
1932, two alternatives to the Einstein theory were open
to consideration (designated here as Theories A and B)."
"Both [Theory] A and [Theory] B assumed the old idea of
absolute space, or 'ether,' ["Nobody" objects here by saying
that no ether is needed in Lorentz's view because light
needs no medium] in which light has the speed c. Both A
and B _explained_ ["Nobody's" emphasis] the zero fringe shift in
the Michelson-Morley experiment by saying that all matter
that moves at the velocity v relative to "absolute space"
undergoes a [physical] shrinkage of its space dimensions
in the direction of motion to a new length equal to
sqr[1-v^2/c^2] times the old length ...."
"The two theories differed as to the effect of 'motion
through absolute space' on the running rate of a clock.
Theory A said, no effect. Theory B said that a standard
seconds clock moving through absolute space at a velocity
v has a time between ticks of sqr[1-v^2/c^2] seconds."
"Thus the Kennedy-Thorndike experiment ruled out Theory A
(length contraction alone) but allowed Theory B (length
contraction plus time contraction) - ...."