Jiim,
I think we both appreciate duration as the effect of stable perception in a dynamic context. Otherwise physical reality only exists as what is referred to as the present and duration is the process occurring in the present between particular events.
The challenge here is how to get beyond the very strong psychological presumption of narrative as foundational, given that it is foundational to the very concept of personal experience.
It is not that physics doesn't understand this, but that they still focus on the measurement of duration, because it is a simple factor that can be calculated. Here is an interesting description of the situation from an entry in the Questioning the Foundations contest, by Edward Anderson;
"``It is utterly beyond our power to measure the changes of things by time. Quite the contrary, time is an abstraction at which we arrive through the changes of things." Ernst Mach [1]. *What* change? Three answers to this are `any change' (Rovelli), `all change' (Barbour) and my argument here for the middle ground of a `sufficient totality of locally relevant change'"
Even though there is the Machian recognition of time as effect, yet somehow a simple measure of this effect is what is incorporated into 'spacetime' as foundational. As I keep pointing out in these discussions, we think of time as that progression from past events to future ones, that we experience as a necessary function of only existing in the present. Yet the larger dynamic is that these events form and dissolve into the next, thus it is the future becoming past that is the larger reality.
Then the various seeming absurdities in physics, such as clocks running at different speeds and reality branching out into multiworlds, are explainable. Clocks run at different rates because they are all physically different processes, much as some things move faster than others. As for multiworlds, when you go from an ordered past into a probabilistic future, it does branch out into possibilities, but when it is the collapse of these possibilities, yielding actualities, ie. future becoming present, the branches come together. It is the actual collapse of the wave function.
Safe to say, this idea gets quickly filtered out by those who have spent their lives studying the geometry of spacetime, with its assumption of a causal property.
Regards,
John M