Tim Maudlin Apr. 4, 2015: "Put two high-precision atomic clocks on the floor together Synchronize. Lift one up on a table. Wait a while. Return to the floor and compare synchronization. This has been done. The clocks go out of syntonization, and the amount out is a function of how long the one is up on the table. No redshift or light involved. Experiments at this precision have only been possible recently."
You abandoned this discussion after realizing that no such experiment has ever been done (no lifting and then returning to the floor). Gravitational time dilation has always been measured by measuring the gravitational redshift but the redshift actually confirms the variable speed of light predicted by Newton's emission theory of light:
Albert Einstein Institute: "One of the three classical tests for general relativity is the gravitational redshift of light or other forms of electromagnetic radiation. However, in contrast to the other two tests - the gravitational deflection of light and the relativistic perihelion shift -, you do not need general relativity to derive the correct prediction for the gravitational redshift. A combination of Newtonian gravity, a particle theory of light, and the weak equivalence principle (gravitating mass equals inertial mass) suffices. (...) The gravitational redshift was first measured on earth in 1960-65 by Pound, Rebka, and Snider at Harvard University..."
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