Hi Sylvain--
Thank you very much for your kind words (and high rating!). I am especially honored that you reviewed my essay and considered it to be one of the better ones. You ask a number of excellent questions, too. Let me try to answer them in order.
First, my initial belief in physical infinity was basically a "default position", as you put it. Over the years, I have asked many physicists whether they think that Nature is, or could be, physically infinite in the cosmological sense. The answer I always get is something like: "Well, sure, I guess" with a shrug. I am embarrassed to say this, but I think most of us just assumed physical infinity without really thinking about it.
Second, as for spatial sections in cosmology, I think that many people are in your camp: They opt for S^3 or some similarly set-up. I have always been impressed by the fact that this is the only spatial geometry that MTW seriously considered in their epic text, "Gravitation". As to where I come out, my mind is open (pardon the pun) on both spatial geometry and overall topology. I just don't think that it is necessary or useful to assume that our Universe is physically infinite in any meaningful sense. And if, for example, it could be shown, somehow, that our Universe has R^3 geometry, then I would still believe that it is not physically infinite in spatial extent. Why? Because it is a long way from Here to Infinity, and the best bet is that something would change along the way.
Third, as to the infinitely small, you are correct on both counts: I don't believe in it and most every other physicist doesn't, either. In fact, I have only met one physicist who believes in infinitely small physical objects. I think GFR Ellis said it best: Such a position is "absurd".
I read with interest your list of three views about the infinitely small. I take the "quantum universe" concept to be correct.
I look forward to reading your essay! And thanks again for your kind words and insightful comments and questions.
Best regards,
Bill.