Dear Vesselin,
Thank you for your response and further illustration of Minkowski spacetime. You state in The Ultimate Judge "all three relativistic effects have been repeatedly confirmed by experiment." I believe to be more accurate, you should say "all three relativistic effects have been repeatedly shown to be consistent with experiment." I would then agree 100% with you. However, consistency between experimental results and the interpretation of experimental results is not proof of the assumptions underlying the interpretation.
Observer A and observer B do indeed have different inertial frameworks and perceptions of time. Furthermore, Lorentz transformations can transform one reference to another with no loss of information. This is fact. Minkowski spacetime, however, is based on the assumption that physical reality is independent of any particular inertial reference frame, i.e. that physical reality is non-contextual. Certainly, non-contextuality is consistent with relativity experiments, but again, consistency is not proof.
Non-contextuality is more difficult to reconcile with quantum experiments, yet most physicists cling to the idea of a non-contextual quantum reality. This difficulty is manifested by the lack of any accepted quantum interpretation. In my essay, I argue that a contextual interpretation is consistent with quantum and relativistic experiments, but it is more general, it is based on empirically consistent and conceptually simple assumptions, and it accommodates objective becoming. I hope you will take to time to read it.
Sincerely,
Harrison