I just read your essay. I need to read it again for greater depth. I usually give these a couple of readings. I am pondering what you are saying. I think it comes down to the Bell statement
P(XY|ST) = sum_λP(X|Sλ)P(Y|Tλ)P(λ),
where the ontic variable is ultimately a summation or dummy variable. This means that what ever the analyst assigns to λ it is independent of the constituent subsystems. Your further implication is that any assignment of ontic variables for the constituent systems is then observer dependent and physically irrelevant.
In my essay I conclude something related to this. I remove the notion of locality from field theory. This is different from the statndard notion of locality, where in QFT this is commutivity of fields on a spatial amplitude fixed by a coordinate condition. However, for noncommutivative spacetime, say quantized spacetime or fine grained detail on a D-brane, quantum nonlocality occurs with gravity and this QFT construction is no longer afforded. The result, based on a reference of mine in this essay, is that the configuration variables of particles are gauge-like dependent. This means the universe consists of only one of each type of elementary particle, such as there is only one electron. The multiplicity of electrons, from the electron kicked up in energy by photosynthesis of one of my tomato plants, one electron in your computer passing through a logic gate, or one in a white dwarf exerting its degenerate pressure to hold the star up, and all the others, are due to a gauge dependent holographic projection of that one electron onto what we think of as local configuration variables.
In this setting the standard QFT approach to assigning field variables φ(x_i,t) at points on a spatial manifold is an observer dependent procedure which is not fundamentally correct. Consequently what you appear to advocate may have deeper implications with quantum gravity.
I am not well read on the subject of causal sets. However, this does suggest that the ontic variable is a sort of gauge-like "processor" that structures a network between nodes of events in the universe.
Cheers LC