Dear Edwin,
I would like to now fulfill my promise that I made to discuss your theory further. I do not wish to duplicate points that you have discussed with others, and in light of the extensive discussions you have already had, there is really only one thing that strikes me about it.
It appears to me that much of the opposition you are running into is due to the fact that your idea presents an answer to a question that nobody is currently asking, and that, from a strategic perspective, a more effective approach for you would be to get people to first ask the relevant question, and then present your theory as a solution.
In order for someone to seriously consider your argument, they have to first be willing to question whether the Stern-Gerlach experiment really has been misinterpreted all along for the last 90 years, which is what your assertion amounts to. But that is something that is probably only slightly less controversial than the claim that a single flip of an ordinary coin could result in many outcomes other than heads or tails. If I wanted to defend your position, I would first and foremost gather as much raw data from published SG experiments and perform statistical analyses to show that interpreting its outcomes in binary terms is a mistake. I am quite frankly astonished that you have so far only listed (as far as I can tell) the raw data from a single experiment (and, as far as I can tell, without statistical analysis), and done little more than just to assert that the outcomes of the SG experiment are not binary.
As much as I am sympathetic to non-mainstream viewpoints, I don't think you can blame mainstream physicists if they don't find this convincing. The burden for gathering the evidence is on you, and for such an established result, it is very high.
So my suggestion would be, for the moment, not to focus on promoting your theory, but on planting doubts that the SG experiment has been correctly interpreted. And to do that, you will need massive evidence. Let me be clear that, personally, I am very skeptical that this can be done, but I'd like to see any novel idea in "the marketplace of ideas" have a fair shot. If you don't do this (and under the supposition that there really was a mistaken interpretation), I think you are only depriving yourself of a fair shot.
I hope you found my suggestion useful.
Best wishes,
Armin